The answer is that we are humans- selfish and insecure. These are the questions which if understood would solve a lot of problems and allow us to be happy. Our humanly approach makes things complex because of the wrong perceptions that we have. These are based on our emotions.
The thoughts are formed by three things which make it either positive or negative- emotions, expectations and fears. These problems can be eliminated if we know our own selves, our beliefs and faith.
It is all about creating our own reality as there is no other reality that exists. This is self actualization. Yes, I know that it is difficult because we are humans and we form expectations and rely on others for so many of our needs. When we are independent, we trust ourselves and let nothing harm us or anyone be harmed.
Life is uncertain; we have to understand our loved ones truly before doing or saying anything. Sometimes we fail to know or unintentionally say the things which hurt the other person badly. This causes a great blow to ourselves and others heart. Such incidents form a line between us which take a lot of time and care to remove, and to recover the distance completely.Emotional injuries hurt more than the physical injuries. It takes effort to make things back to normal because trust is everything; once it is broken, it takes infinity to develop again.
We are humans, and we are social and emotional animals. So both verbal and nonverbal communication play a vital role in sparking a fire. We perceive things according to the actions because that is the reality that is evident.
These actions can then, make or break others heart. So why do we hang our own thoughts with other people's necks? Why do we control and influence other's thinking?
Author: Raza Malik
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